I think boundaries are so sexy. Why? Because it’s open communication, vulnerability, confidence and empowerment all rolled into one. It’s consent. It’s ‘ I need less virtual comms’, ‘Whatsapp, zoom meetings, Drives and group chats give me anxiety’, ‘this is important to me’, ‘I want to explore loving in different ways with different people’, ‘you are only allowed one week off during summer’. You know? We all have our boundaries. They are so so important. And what is even more

Girl I've been making love all night fell asleep to the taste of sweet port wine he made the sun set in my third eye all went dark until that full moon rise a deep red perfect stain of wine in the middle of the black night sky then a big ball of orange fire I felt so in Valencia scents of citrus after dark orange blossoms in the park essential oils straight from the peel zest for life how you make me feel I bite my lips and taste everything summer of love here to begin you to

You know what I love? Saying I love you Three days into knowing you Heart explosions Hard positions Intense everything Yes to anything Adding baby to my vocabulary Every day out of the ordinary You take me places Ooh baby The places you take me in Lust dripping from your chin Forgetting what world I’m in The real or the dream The saint or the sin Has it really only been Three days of eating your skin For lunch and breakfast Time does move fast Five hours in five minutes Next

Massive inner censor reactions to this one, but here we go. My journals and conversations have been overflowing with words on love, lovemaking and the healing powers this can have. Sexuality has always played a big role in my life. As I’m finding my tribe in Valencia and wherever we go we create a judgement free zone, I’m feeling more empowered to write about my experiences and thoughts on this sexy topic. I don’t know exactly how to explain it. But as I’m getting older and h